[Damus freezes, drink still held aloft. The conversation has strayed into dangerous territory and Damus is more than aware that he needs to step lightly.]

Understandably. I know that this must be difficult for you.

[He does his best to stay neutral, yet sympathetic.]

Vos might just need a bit of assurance that you are just as fond of him. Your relationship with-- [He stops himself before saying the pet] With the old Vos was so unique. He may feel as if you are trying to replace him with something new.